Demystifying the Porn Industry
I received another email from a now not-so-confused South African male who had written asking me a number of questions. (1st email and response on legal porn vs. illegal sex trafficking here, 2nd...
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I find an underrated point of conversation–where adult work is concerned–is life inside the office. Now, I don’t know what other industry offices are like, but I know from other’s retelling that they...
View ArticleLife After Porn
No, this post has nothing to do with the documentary of a similar name–though I was in the presence of someone recently that said they felt their interview was edited out of context. We have come to...
View ArticlePorn vs. Anti-Porn Conversation (or “Audrey Rose vs. Dawn Hawkins”)
My friend, whom I’ll call “Christian”, is a devout Christian and doctor. He’s one of the few Christians I’ve met who has a heart of pure gold and actually cares about people. He sent me three YouTube...
View ArticlePorn vs. Anti-Porn Conversation: Mirror Neurons
My friend “Christian” began a line of questioning via email asking me what I thought about this and that, always coming around to his personal fear that pornography is harmful. [First conversation...
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Sex Workers and Education
Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you are aware of this incredibly sensationalized and fairly recent phenomenon: Teachers with porn star pasts! I’ve had conversations about this with a few...
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How in the world did I survive the porn industry?
I just read the Aurora Snow post at The Daily Beast entitled, Blood, Sweat and Sex: My Hard Life in Porn. Her writing has been suggested to me multiple times now and I think it’s good and interesting....
View ArticlePorn vs. Anti-Porn Conversation: Is it impossible?
I just told my Christian friend “Christian” that I need a break from the porn conversation. We met at a time when I was upset that someone I had called a friend was openly attacking me. We met at a...
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Being a Sex Worker Has Made Me a Better Person
There was a study posted last year suggesting that porn stars are happy healthy human beings, basically. [Link here]. This isn’t a review of that, just my personal feelings about having been an actual...
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What’s gotten into me lately?
I was asked by an industry veteran what I think is the biggest problem with the adult industry today. Personally, I think it’s the hate. In my opinion, there’s too much of it online. It’s easy to tear...
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